WHO WILL I MARRY?

The question ‘who will I marry’ is a critical one to everyone who dreams to ever get married. It’s almost certain that everyone living in this world has to ask himself this question a least once in a lifetime. If you fail to ask this question, you may as well find yourself asking ‘who did I marry’. There are many theories surrounding this area of marriage, this article highlights key issues that I have learnt from personal experience, research and through extensive and intensive study on the area. I therefore intend to be as practical as possible so that I do not end up introducing another unrealistic theory.
Where do I start? This might be the question that is ringing in your mind. Start where you are. Remember that everybody starts somewhere. Have you prayed about this issue? I want you to know that issues of marriage are very serious and there is no chance for trial and error. It is sad to note that in some countries marriage has been taken to be a form of contract and hence not given the weight it deserves. Please remove that from you mind. If you do not intend to spend your whole life with someone, do not waste his/her time. There is no marriage for kids, so if you are a kid, please stay away from it. There are some young adults who want to behave like kids, always looking for pity, bringing unnecessary arguments and disagreement. If you are that kind, stay away. You are yet to qualify. Marriage relationships are for mature people with a goal, which is marriage.
Do not form a habit of moving from one person to another. This shows that you are not ready for marriage. In fact this may mean that you are the person with the problem. However do not be afraid to break a relationship if both of you feel that it cannot work out, it’s better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.